Did you know that it hurts us more in the long run to hold onto things that no longer serve you? Whether it be a job path and ignoring that calling or staying in a relationship, situation-ship (not judging).

While going through the motions we may not see the greater good of letting go. Because we think this situation is what validates us or we’ll be missing out in some way should be let go. Or or afraid of what the future holds for you if your comfort level was rocked a bit.  If your comfort although painful and draining would no longer be there.  Some times the things, people or situations that hurt us the most we seek out because pain is all we know.  It is familiar, so the hurt off holding on is subdued. For there must be an explanation for it right? Wrong you don't have to keep on asking WHY, or WHY ME and stay because its comfortable or because this is what you've always known.  

There is always life after you let go. More often than not there is MORE LIFE when you let go of the things, people or circumstances that no longer fuel you positively or help you heal or grow. More opportunities, more freedom more room for clarity and finding what sets your soul on fire that's what you're letting go for.

Some of us are fighting to hold onto things or situations where if we’d just let go or loosen the grip even we’d see that this is something that has not been holding us down in but holding us under.

Let go sis.